Everything Genuine Has a Counterfeit. Ever notice that? Some call’em, ‘knock-offs.’
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knock off Oakley sunglasses
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knock off Nike shoes
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knock off Gucci bags
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knock off Polo shirts
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knock off Rolex watches
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counterfeit money
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look alike movie stars
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fake antiques
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fake smiles
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fake friends
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fake repentence
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fake community
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fake serving
Depending on what’s being faked, the stakes can be pretty high. I don’t really mind having a cheap pair of Oakley sunglasses as long as they offer some UV protection and basically get the job done. And a polo shirt is a polo shirt as far as I am concerned—whether there is a little polo rider on it or an alligator—who cares?
Fake money? That’ll get you in trouble. That’s a no-no.
Fake smiles? I don’t even want to bother with people like that—be real for goodness sake!
Fake friends?
OUCH!
Depending on how close they got before they were exposed, this can send people into a tale spin. Some all time classics come to mind:
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Brutus
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Benedict Arnold
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And the worst of them all…Judas
I’ll bet some of these started out good—maybe even had pure intentions, but something went wrong along the way and they ended up bad. Really bad.
Brutus truly believed in the ‘Republic’ of Rome and actually did some good for a loose form of democracy that assured no ‘one man’ would have the power of a dictator. Unfortunately, he let hatred and bitterness drive him to plotting and murder. Caesar had treated him almost as a son, but even that love wasn’t strong enough to keep Brutus from revealing himself to be false.
Benedict Arnold was actually a great military commander in important battles leading up to and during the first part of the Revolutionary war. However, passed over and under-appreciated, he decided to fake his allegiance to Washington and secretly side with the British. Most today know little or nothing about the good he did before becoming a turn-coat.
Judas? Can anything good be said about Judas? Only this…he cared about his people and their independence more than anything else so he fought for it constantly. He was (some believe) a zealot (which was a highly vocal—sometimes violent advocate of revolutionary overthrow of the oppressing Roman government by any means) and his passion for the nation cause him to ‘use Jesus’ as a means to an end. So, I guess “no” — pretty much nothing good can be said about such a false and plotting individual.
So, they were sincere, but sincerely wrong. And it all seemed to go south when they determined in their hearts to become ‘fake’ in order to accomplish their goals. Once you’re fake—you’re not YOU anymore and sooner or later everything you do will be nothing more than a counterfeit of the original.
Then it’s over.
Christians need to watch out for this stuff too. God has clear cut ways for the believer to grow, love, find purpose, restore relationships, live an abundant life and more—but none of these has a short cut that works as well. You have to follow His genuine, bonified, legit prescription—period. No copy-cat short cuts. Here are some of the genuines that you better not try and fake:
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Genuine repentance has a copy-cat version of simply saying, “I’m sorry.” Judas was ‘sorry.’ Peter was repentant.
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Genuine serving has a copy-cat of just ‘doing good deeds.’ One develops a heart like God. The other simply gets you false brownie-points with man.
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Genuine community such as we find in small groups (we call them, “Life-Groups.”) at Southbrook Church has a million and one counterfeits. But they can all be summed up as get togethers not centered around Christ. Bunko, Poker Night, golf buddies, creative memory groups…not bad, just don’t expect to develop deep friendships in the Christ there.
Not even sure why I wrote this one…Just some things I’m thinking through. Take it for what it’s worth.
Rob Singleton is the lead pastor and founding pastor of
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I recently experienced a revelation of a counterfeit in a friendship – it was depressing.
It is worth talking about being real. It is easy to make connections with people and claim to have community. The proof in the pudding will be when someone (maybe me) experiences a rough patch or a tragedy or even has a moral failure. Will everyone else demonstrate their real friendship and Christ-love by coming around the one who is down? Or will the rest of the group just talk about how the “mighty have fallen?”
Being real takes effort and energy. Without it, there is no real community.
Keep this thought going, Rob.
First, I hope that you your relationships are solid. That what is on your mind you are not experiencing in life. Fake relationships, as you call them are very troubling and difficult to navigate. The emotions that come with the realization that the friendship (or whatever realtionship was there) was not genuine, is a tough pill to swallow.
I have recently, and in the past have experienced this difficult realization that the relationship was not genuine and indeed superficial. Mike is right, being real does take effort and energy. Kinda goes with the saying, Love is a choice, not an emotion. I wake up everyday ‘choosing’ to love my wife, my kids, my job and most importantly GOD.
John 10:28-30 has been a verse that comforts me during those times. It is a reminder to me that God loves me so much that he doesn’t allow anyone to ‘snatch us’ from the Father. A reminder that there is at least one true friendship that I have. Now, how much ‘effort and energy’ am I going to put into that relationship?